If you had five billion you could hop from job to job, calling entitled customers idiots all across your city, putting the fear of You into every shithead in town until people become afraid to be rude to servers and cashiers, lest you emerge from the back room like some kind of manners-enforcing specter
listen when you see a bitch with no discoloration, pores, acne, etc don’t bother asking what their skincare routine is because it really doesn’t matter ITS GENETICS SIS
And if you see a bitch with discoloration, pores, acne etc don’t proceed to tell them your skincare routine and keep your fucking mouth shut
one thing i realized a while ago is that some crushes are better left as crushes. sometimes, you only like someone because you don’t know enough about them to dislike them.
When I was growing up any time my brother upset/hurt/was rude to or downright nasty to me I was told “he’s just doing it to get a rise out of you” “he’s just doing it to annoy you”
Like??? I know?? I know he’s being mean to upset me. I know he’s saying horrible stuff to annoy me. And guess what?? I’m annoyed!!!!
I was literally told not to be upset, because his intentions were to upset me????
How is that not upsetting? Especially to a young girl??
I was really depressed today and my gf convinced me to go take a bath and then a nap and when I came back out into the main area of our apartment she had cleaned, lit candles, and made me dinner I’m gonna fucking cry I love her so much
I really appreciate how she’s taught me to run through a checklist of what might be wrong when I’m down and I’ve learned to do the same with her. The questions are all super basic but help me a lot like:
- have you eaten recently?
- have you drank water?
- have you done something for your hygiene yet today?
- do you need to take a rest?
- is the space we’re in causing stress in some way? (too dirty, loud, bright, crowded, etc.)
- has something happened or is there a specific emotion you need to acknowledge right now?
- are you putting something off you need to do or a problem you need to solve and can I help you to accomplish/fix it?
Idk just having someone help me assess my feelings and give me space to open up has really made it so i shutdown due to depression/anxiety less and communicate more clearly. It’s really helped us not fight or get frustrated with each other.
